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Hi, I'm Joel. Welcome!

I believe that all gay men can… and should… have genuine, inspired and fulfilling lives. Lives free from insecurity, the need for external validation and the misguided feelings of self-loathing that many in our community experience.

I’ve learned that with the right guidance you can create life-altering shifts in perspective that can break down self imposed barriers and reconnect you to your true self. Through individual and group coaching, I partner with gay men to overcome fear around failure, success and judgment by others to help them identify their dreams and reach their full, self-expressed potential.

It is my hope that as each of us become more secure in who we are as individuals, we as a community will have a greater impact on people who have yet to take the first step in being true to themselves.

I look forward to working with you!

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Owning Your BIG DEAL Status

“It has nothing to do with who I am as compared to everyone else. It has everything to do with who I am in companionship with God.” -Craig D. Lounsbrough Ever run into someone who literally bleeds confidence and success? Someone who knows what they want, how to get it and why they deserve it? And when they achieve an incredible feat, you’re hardly surprised. I mean, c’mon, they’re kind of amazing. Right? Better yet, do you have someone in your life who sees this greatness in you? Someone who doesn’t buy in to the limiting beliefs, insecurities or bullsh*t excuses you spew out into the world as a means to play small and live a compromised life. All they…



Tiny Buddha Featured Article: 4 Tips to Live a Balanced, Happy Life with Fewer Regrets

“Happiness is not a matter of intensity but of balance and order and rhythm and harmony.” ~Thomas Merton Hello Friends, Balance has become an ever-elusive thing these days. The onslaught of technological breakthroughs, aimed at making life easier, has given way to a societal expectation that we are available around the clock. This has bled into our careers, where our employers have ever increasing expectations that we can do more in less time. We have 168 hours in our week to sleep, work, rest, be with our loved ones, and pursue personal interests. Unfortunately, the majority of people in the world today complain that they aren’t able to keep up with the competing commitments that steal much of their precious…



My Top 11 List for Keeping Sane and Calm this Holiday Season

It’s that time of year again. Time for decorations, pretty lights, reuniting with family and visits home. It’s also time for overtaxed schedules, family arguments, mall parking lots and all the other things that make the holidays a royal pain in the ars! So in the spirit of taking on only what you can, having a stress free holiday season and ensuring you show up for both yourself and others in a meaningful fashion, here’s my top 11 (I couldn’t make 10 work) list for keeping cool, staying sane and being present this holiday season. 1. Create the MUST List. It all starts with getting organized. Creating a must do/must have/must see list helps you stay organized and prevents you…



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